How does your life look to the people who know you?
Rate 8 areas of your life. Then let friends rate you — anonymously. See where you're too hard on yourself, and where you might have a blind spot.
3 minutes · Personal action plan · Friends stay anonymous
How it works
Rate your life
Score 8 areas from 1 to 10 — health, mind, money, work, love, friends, fun and growth.
Send one link
Share it with friends, family or your partner. They rate the same 8 areas for you, anonymously.
See the difference
See your wheel next to theirs, your blind spots, and a personal action plan with tips matched to your scores.
Why a life audit with other people?
Most of us are bad judges of our own lives. We're too harsh about some things and blind to others. A classic "wheel of life" only shows your own view. Adding the people who know you best shows the full picture — and it's often kinder than you expect.
Use it at the end of the year, before a big decision, or whenever life feels a bit off.
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How many weekends do you have left? How many more visits with your parents? Get your life as a receipt — in 30 seconds.
Print my receipt →Questions
What is a life audit?
A life audit is an honest check-up on the main areas of your life, so you can see what's working and what needs attention. Ours covers health, mind & mood, money, work, love & family, friends, fun & rest, and growth & purpose.
Are my friends' answers really anonymous?
Yes. You only see the average of everyone's ratings, and only after at least 3 people have answered — so no single answer can be traced back. Individual answers are never stored, only running totals.
Can people write mean comments?
No. There are no comment boxes. Friends can only give number ratings and pick from a short list of kind words and caring wishes.
Do I need an account?
No. You get a private results link — bookmark it to come back. It also stays saved in your browser.
How often should I do a life audit?
Once a year is a great habit — many people do it in late December or January. Doing it every 3 months lets you see real progress.
Rate your life, honestly
1 = really struggling, 10 = couldn't be better. Go with your gut.
Your friends will see your name, not your scores.
Now ask 5 people who know you
Send this link to friends, family or your partner. The more people, the better the picture — results unlock after 3.
Don't share this one. Bookmark it — it's how you see your results. It's also saved in this browser.
Go to my results page →How is their life going?
What do you admire about them?
Pick up to 3 (optional)
What do you wish they'd do more?
Pick up to 3 (optional)
Thank you — that was kind of you
Your answers were added anonymously.
Curious how your life looks to others?
Rate yourself in 2 minutes, send your own link, and see where your friends see you differently.
Start my own Life Audit →Your results
What stands out
Area by area
What your friends admire
What they wish for you
Share your wheel
Get a picture of your results for Instagram, WhatsApp or anywhere. It shows your wheel and scores — never who rated you.
Keep collecting answers
More people = a truer picture. Your results update automatically.